He Says, She Says: Flirting Moves That Work(转载)

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flirting Move #3: The Oral Fixation (sucking a lollipop, licking lips, etc.)
  调情# 3 :吸吮棒棒糖,舔嘴唇
  Erin says: Always, always do this at some point in the evening. Men imagine that lollipop or Popsicle is their favorite body part … Warning: Use this move sparingly — if you spend the whole night perfecting the move, it looks a little over-the-top.
  艾琳说:在某个晚上做到这一点。男性想象,棒棒糖或冰棒是他们最喜欢的身体部位...警告:如果您花一整夜完善举措,看起来有点超过。
  Ryan says: Do girls actually do this? I mean, outside of porn movies? If so, I’ve been missing out big-time. [Glamour Editor’s note: Ryan, have you met Erin? See above.]
  瑞安说:女孩们在实际生活上做到这一点?我的意思是,除了在色情电影中? [魅力编者按:瑞安,你见过艾琳了吗?见上文。 ]
   Flirting Move #4: The Mirror (i.e., if you lean in, she leans in)
   调情移动# 4 :镜子(即,如果你俯下身,她俯下身)
  Erin says: I do this in job interviews, and a date is essentially a job interview. If a guy isn’t interested, he’ll sit back. So why should you sit forward and look all anxious and desperate? Sit back! But if he leans in to hang on your every word, by all means, lean in right back.
  艾琳说;我在面试中作这个。约会基本上是一个面试,如果那个男人不感兴趣,他会坐回去。那为什么你应该坐直并看上去焦虑绝望?坐回去!
  Ryan says: This is one of my favorite techniques — subtle but effective. It works well when paired with a slight smile and eye contact
  瑞安说:这是我最喜欢的一个技巧-微妙但有效。搭配微笑和眼神接触很好。
  Flirting Move #5: The Whisper
  调情# 5 :窃窃私语
  Erin says: Teachers change their volume to get your attention. Often they get quieter instead of raising their voices. It works for them, and it can work for you. When you whisper to a man, he has visions of you whispering in the dark. In bed. Do it.
  艾琳说:教师改变自己的音量来引起你的注意。当你对一个人耳语时,他设想你在黑暗中窃窃私语。在床上做到这一点。
  Ryan says: A while ago I was at a party with a date and she leaned over and whispered, "Let’s get out of here" in a really seductive voice. Just thinking about it still gives me shivers — in a good way.
  瑞安说:前一段我在聚会上的一个约会,她俯身并低声说, “让我们离开这里”用非常诱人的声音。
   Flirting Move #6: The "Accidental" Touch
  调情# 6 : “意外”触摸
  Erin says: I’ve been told this is disarming — in a good way. I’m quite the "unaware toucher," but I always make sure the guy accidentally touches me first. That gives me some idea of his interest. Ninety-five percent of the time, if he likes me, he’ll touch my arm or leg, usually as a way to emphasize something he’s saying. Look for his first accidental touch about an hour into the date (any sooner and he’s probably not the most respectful guy).如果他喜欢我,他会碰我的胳膊或腿,通常为强调他说的东西,寻找约会后第一次意外接触的时间(越快,他可能越不是最受尊敬的人) 。
  
  Flirting Move #7: The Longer-Than-Normal Eye Gaze
  调情# 7 :眼睛注视
  Erin says: This works, but don’t stare him down. Hold the gaze for no more than five seconds, and make sure to smile. I’ve reeled ‘em in countless times this way. It’s like a green light. You’re silently expressing interest and inviting him or giving him permission to come over.
  艾琳说:这个有效,但不要盯着他。目光不超过5秒,请务必微笑。我已经无数次这样。这就像开了绿灯。你静静地表示有兴趣,并邀请他或给他过来的权限。
  Ryan says: This is the easiest and most effective way to signal your interest from across the bar, and it is the only excuse a self-confident guy needs to make a move.
  瑞安说:这是最简单和最有效的方式,全国各地的酒吧里有兴趣的信号,它是自信的家伙需要作出行动的唯一的借口。
   Flirting Move #8: The Smile
  调情# 8 :微笑
  
  Erin says: Always smile. Most men love happy drama-free, toothsome women. It’s the best move you can make.
  艾琳说:永远的微笑。大多数男人爱高兴的女人。这是最好的举措。
  
  
  Ryan says: If a gaze followed by a smile doesn’t bring him over, trust me, he’s not interested.
   瑞安说:如果一个微笑之后的眼神并不能使他过来,相信我,他不感兴趣。
  Flirting Move #9: The Footsie Play
  
  Erin says: I have never done this. If you want to pull a Mrs. Robinson and seduce some young boy, go for it. But it’s pretty brazen and kind of cheesy. I’m never that forward. Also, some people have a foot fear — it’s the anti-foot fetish.艾琳说:我从来没有这样做。如果你想引诱一些年轻的孩子,去吧。但它非常无耻和俗气。我从来没有。
  Ryan says: It’s very aggressive. If bad ’80s comedies are any guide, this move should be saved for large family dinners as a way to antagonize relatives, like when you’re sitting across from creepy Uncle Melvin.
  瑞安说:这是非常积极的。如果80年代的喜剧片是任何坏的指南,这一举措应保留到大型家庭晚宴,以此来对抗亲戚,当你对面坐的不寒而栗的叔叔梅尔文。
  He Says, She Says: Flirting Moves That Work (and Ones That Never, Ever Will)
  By Erin Meanley and Ryan Dodge
  他说,她说:调情举动
  Dating bloggers Erin Meanley and Ryan Dodge (who collaborate on Glamour’s Single-ish blog) give their expert opinions on the flirting techniques men and women use every day — sounding off on those that actually heat things up, as well as those that put a permanent kibosh on any budding romance.
   交友博主艾琳,赖安道奇(合作魅力的单身博客)给出他们的专家意见。
  
  Flirting Move #1: The Wink
  调情举动# 1 :眨眼
  
  
  Erin says: The wink can be friendly or cutesy, but if you really want to stop him in his tracks, modify it. Try the slow wink. You close your eyelid and then open it slowly, and at the same time roll your shoulder forward and lift your chin, like you’re laughing in slow-motion. But just know that this move is lethal, and it sends a message loud and clear. You might as well give him your room key. I’ve never used it on a stranger.艾琳说:在眨眼可以表示友好或娇媚,但对其进行修改。尝试缓慢地眨眼。你关闭眼睑,然后慢慢打开它,像你用慢动作笑。要知道,这一举动是致命的,它发出了一个响亮而明确的讯息。你可能也给他的房间的钥匙。我从来没有向一个陌生人使用过。
  Ryan says: The wink is good in theory but difficult in practice. I’m not very good at winking, so I’ve never pulled this move — and if I saw a girl do it, I’d assume she had a twitch.
  瑞安说:眨眼理论上是好的,但在实践中很难。我不是很擅长眨眼,所以我从来没有做出这一举动-如果我看到一个女孩这样做,我会担心她在抽搐。
  

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