flirting Move #3: The Oral Fixation (sucking a lollipop, licking lips, etc.)
调情＃ 3 ：吸吮棒棒糖，舔嘴唇
Erin says: Always, always do this at some point in the evening. Men imagine that lollipop or Popsicle is their favorite body part … Warning: Use this move sparingly — if you spend the whole night perfecting the move, it looks a little over-the-top.
Ryan says: Do girls actually do this? I mean, outside of porn movies? If so, I’ve been missing out big-time. [Glamour Editor’s note: Ryan, have you met Erin? See above.]
瑞安说：女孩们在实际生活上做到这一点？我的意思是，除了在色情电影中？ [魅力编者按：瑞安，你见过艾琳了吗？见上文。 ]
Flirting Move #4: The Mirror (i.e., if you lean in, she leans in)
调情移动＃ 4 ：镜子（即，如果你俯下身，她俯下身）
Erin says: I do this in job interviews, and a date is essentially a job interview. If a guy isn’t interested, he’ll sit back. So why should you sit forward and look all anxious and desperate? Sit back! But if he leans in to hang on your every word, by all means, lean in right back.
Ryan says: This is one of my favorite techniques — subtle but effective. It works well when paired with a slight smile and eye contact
Flirting Move #5: The Whisper
调情＃ 5 ：窃窃私语
Erin says: Teachers change their volume to get your attention. Often they get quieter instead of raising their voices. It works for them, and it can work for you. When you whisper to a man, he has visions of you whispering in the dark. In bed. Do it.
Ryan says: A while ago I was at a party with a date and she leaned over and whispered, "Let’s get out of here" in a really seductive voice. Just thinking about it still gives me shivers — in a good way.
Flirting Move #6: The "Accidental" Touch
调情＃ 6 ： “意外”触摸
Erin says: I’ve been told this is disarming — in a good way. I’m quite the "unaware toucher," but I always make sure the guy accidentally touches me first. That gives me some idea of his interest. Ninety-five percent of the time, if he likes me, he’ll touch my arm or leg, usually as a way to emphasize something he’s saying. Look for his first accidental touch about an hour into the date (any sooner and he’s probably not the most respectful guy).如果他喜欢我，他会碰我的胳膊或腿，通常为强调他说的东西，寻找约会后第一次意外接触的时间（越快，他可能越不是最受尊敬的人） 。
Flirting Move #7: The Longer-Than-Normal Eye Gaze
调情＃ 7 ：眼睛注视
Erin says: This works, but don’t stare him down. Hold the gaze for no more than five seconds, and make sure to smile. I’ve reeled ‘em in countless times this way. It’s like a green light. You’re silently expressing interest and inviting him or giving him permission to come over.
Ryan says: This is the easiest and most effective way to signal your interest from across the bar, and it is the only excuse a self-confident guy needs to make a move.
Flirting Move #8: The Smile
调情＃ 8 ：微笑
Erin says: Always smile. Most men love happy drama-free, toothsome women. It’s the best move you can make.
Ryan says: If a gaze followed by a smile doesn’t bring him over, trust me, he’s not interested.
Flirting Move #9: The Footsie Play
Erin says: I have never done this. If you want to pull a Mrs. Robinson and seduce some young boy, go for it. But it’s pretty brazen and kind of cheesy. I’m never that forward. Also, some people have a foot fear — it’s the anti-foot fetish.艾琳说：我从来没有这样做。如果你想引诱一些年轻的孩子，去吧。但它非常无耻和俗气。我从来没有。
Ryan says: It’s very aggressive. If bad ’80s comedies are any guide, this move should be saved for large family dinners as a way to antagonize relatives, like when you’re sitting across from creepy Uncle Melvin.
He Says, She Says: Flirting Moves That Work (and Ones That Never, Ever Will)
By Erin Meanley and Ryan Dodge
Dating bloggers Erin Meanley and Ryan Dodge (who collaborate on Glamour’s Single-ish blog) give their expert opinions on the flirting techniques men and women use every day — sounding off on those that actually heat things up, as well as those that put a permanent kibosh on any budding romance.
Flirting Move #1: The Wink
调情举动＃ 1 ：眨眼
Erin says: The wink can be friendly or cutesy, but if you really want to stop him in his tracks, modify it. Try the slow wink. You close your eyelid and then open it slowly, and at the same time roll your shoulder forward and lift your chin, like you’re laughing in slow-motion. But just know that this move is lethal, and it sends a message loud and clear. You might as well give him your room key. I’ve never used it on a stranger.艾琳说：在眨眼可以表示友好或娇媚，但对其进行修改。尝试缓慢地眨眼。你关闭眼睑，然后慢慢打开它，像你用慢动作笑。要知道，这一举动是致命的，它发出了一个响亮而明确的讯息。你可能也给他的房间的钥匙。我从来没有向一个陌生人使用过。
Ryan says: The wink is good in theory but difficult in practice. I’m not very good at winking, so I’ve never pulled this move — and if I saw a girl do it, I’d assume she had a twitch.
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